On some Friday nights, I make my way to Temple Beth Israel in Portland for Shabbat services. I fight the traffic and my end of the week tiredness to participate in a service in a language that I do not understand with people whom I do not know.
I find peace and I find comfort at these services. I enjoy that Hebrew is spoken, chanted and sung. Fortunately, the prayer book/hymnal is in English as well as Hebrew.
The faithful around me understand Hebrew from early language training as part of their culture. I am not Jewish and until recently had never set foot inside a synagogue. The Rabbi and the Cantor (his wife) always greet me with a hug and a warm welcome.
I am an active Episcopalian and participate in the life of my church. However, I enjoy learning about other faiths and traditions. I want to understand.
I share with you the Hebrew and English words to Mi Shebeirach that is sung every week as part of the Yahrzeit memorial to honor not only recent deaths but the anniversary of the deaths of parents of the members. It is beautiful to know that their names are read year after year. It is beautiful to hear the superb voice of the cantor, Ida Rae Cahana, lead the singing.
Here is a link to a version on You Tube.Mi Shebeirach
Mi Shebeirach
Mi Shebeirach Avoteinu, Avraham, Yitzchak v’Yaakov
Mi Shebeirach Imoteinu, Sarah, Rivkah, Leah v’Rachel
May the One who blessed our Mothers
May the One who blessed our Fathers
Hear our prayer, hear our prayer (2x)
And bless us as well
Bless us with the power of Your healing
Bless us with the power of Your hope
May our hearts be filled with understanding
And strengthened by the power of Your love.
(Please note that this song is used for other occasions within the Jewish faith. )
It’s been a long time since I’ve been to temple. It’s wonderful that you take the time to learn about and experience different religions.
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Thank you. I have enjoyed a warm reception and even an offer to work with recent widows. A positive experience!
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I am not Jewish, but I get a strong sense of calm, order and strength hearing Mi Shebeirach
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Thanks for sharing. I also get that feeling. Beautiful music speaks to many.
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I love your openness and accommodating spirit. It’s what the world needs to be a better place. If we can all enjoying learning about other faiths and traditions, there will be peace.
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Thank you! Your comments mean a lot to me. I hope we all, in our small way, can make the world a better place. Lori
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You are welcome, Lori. I hope so too.
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Dear Lori,
Thank you this is a truly beautiful sharing post. I am in the place where my heart longs to really ‘connect’ with all whose life is turned to ‘making this world better’. The other side of all fighting and turmoil is LOVE. The essence of my God is LOVE and He is present with those whose hearts are turned to HIM. Deception would tell us God is something else. LOVE DIVINE expressed as you shared. At the heart of Judaism and in every place where acknowledgment of this LOVE more perfect than human comprehension can determine and surely not acted out in acts of cruelty or violence.
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We truly need the “peacemakers” in our world today. Thank you for your heartfelt response. Lori
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wonderful post
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Hi, Thank you for reading and commenting. Lori
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It looks pure, magical and very lovely. I think it’s so refreshing that you want to learn about other religions and traditions. I was raised Baptist but am intrigued with all religions. I would totally go with you! 🙂 Thank you for sharing this with us.
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Hello, to a kindred soul who also likes to learn about other religions and traditions. You can “go with me” when you like as they broadcast their services on their website. (*-*)
http://www.bethisrael-pdx.org/ It might be interesting. Thanks for reading and commenting.
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Oh thank you so much! I’ll most definitely check it out!
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I once read that a dying man would hum his Hebrew prayers. It did not matter that he forgot the words. He remembered the comfort of the prayers’ melody. I read minimal Hebrew. However, the melody of the prayer connects me and it feels like home. Thank you for the post. I will think of your post when I light the candles tomorrow night!
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Your comments touch me deeply. Thank you!
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Thank you for writing such lovely posts!
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Lori, I’m delighted that you heard this prayer and found it meaningful. It’s a blessing outside the bounds of any one religion. It welcomes and embraces all faiths.
When my father suffered the stroke that eventually killed him six years ago, I sang this blessing to him many times, trying to bring him some peace at a time that he was in great pain and very frightened.
Here is a slightly different version written by and made very famous by the late cantor, Debbie Friedman:
Mi shebeirach avoteinu
M’kor hab’racha l’imoteinu
May the source of strength,
Who blessed the ones before us,
Help us find the courage to make our lives a blessing,
and let us say, Amen.
Mi shebeirach imoteinu
M’kor habrachah l’avoteinu
Bless those in need of healing with r’fuah sh’leimah,
The renewal of body, the renewal of spirit,
And let us say, Amen
R’fuah sh’leimah translates roughly to “the spirit of the Holy One”
A room full of people chanting this blessing is an extraordinary experience as the burdens you bear fall away and you’re transformed into being a part of the healing process itself. That’s what I tried to capture for my father.
Thank you for sharing your experience with others.
May the one who makes peace in the high heavens grant peace to you and to the whole world.
Shari
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Shari, Your wonderful response brought tears to my eyes and happiness to my heart. I am sorry about your Father. He was so blessed to have such a loving daughter. Thank you for sharing. Lori
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I think it’s great that you are attending Shabbat services. I am a Roman Catholic convert from Judaism. I think of Temple as worshiping as Christ did.
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Attending both my church and temple add much to my spiritual journey. Did you convert a long time ago? Thank you for reading and commenting on my post.
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Lori, I was raised Episcopalian in Corvallis. Lots of warm memories. I’m thinking that you have discovered a great way to seek to understand those of different faiths. My hat is off to you. And your warm reception is because you have made a difference in their lives just by being there. Keep up your encouraging posts, Lori.
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Lori, I think it is lovely what you do. I have never been in a temple before, nor had I heard the Mi Shebeirah before today. Listening to it on uTube really brought this tranquil feeling within me …now I am curious. Thanks for sharing such a beautiful post. 🙂
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Great story… even the picture shows peace and serenity. I agree that even if you don’t follow that religion you can still gain some comfort from it
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Thank you for reading and sharing. The temple is so high that it hurts my neck to look up at the domed ceiling. It is very beautiful inside.
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Good for you for stepping out of your comfort zone in order to become more enlightened. And good for Temple Beth Israel for welcoming and accepting you. 🙂
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Thank you for your kind comments. It is a lovely experience.
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I’m a non-believer, but there’s something comforting to me about vespers.
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I agree. I leave feeling much calmer and at peace. Thanks for your comment.
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I LOVE it! I went to a Catholic High School and taking a religion class meant learning about other religions. Pretty cool, looking back on it.
When I first saw your picture, I wanted to go inside too!
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It is beautiful inside. It hurts my neck when I look up the top of the dome from the inside. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!!
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What beautiful words! Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.
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Lori, this is truly beautiful. You’ve inspired me to check out my local temple. I was raised in a community Christian church by lapsed Baptists in the southern US. Both of my parents were spiritual people but had been somewhat hurt by the church of their youth. I had mixed feelings about church and religion in general but have always been deeply spiritual. Religion fascinates me. Several years ago I was in a very dark place and craved a spiritual community. I visited several churches in my area and landed at a Unitarian Universalist fellowship — a place that welcomed all. I felt such comfort with the rituals and worshiped alongside people from all walks of life. I gained a better understanding of all religions and finally understood the similarities. We moved recently and once again I find myself missing a spiritual community. This beautiful post has helped push me and see that I should just go — Jewish temple, Buddhist temple, the nearby Episcopal church or possibly another UU fellowship in the area. I know you’ve been through a lot with the loss of your husband, and I’m amazed at your resiliency. Thank you for sharing your wise and lovely words.
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Good morning. I read your comments on my phone just before services last night. I bookmarked it so that I could answer you when I had more time and on my laptop rather than my phone. Your comments mean a lot to me. Thank you for sharing your background. I am glad that you found the UU fellowship especially at a time when you needed it. I have heard many good things about UU. I hope that you will find a place(s) that provides the spiritual growth and peace that I have found. Plus, attending services grounds me.
As to resiliency, I keep on going to fulfill the promise I made to my Husband and to provide an example to my sons. However, I think that you are resilient too. The name of your blog “Grief Happens. So Does Joy” says it all. Thank you again for your warmth and openness. Hugs, Lori
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Thank you for introducing me to a calming religion. I don’t understand Hebrew but as I read the words, it fills me with a calming effect.
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Thank you Kally. I feel the same way.
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What a beautiful house of worship, Lori.
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It is beautiful…the dome is so high that it strains my neck when I look up when I am inside.
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Feel the angelic burn, Lori!
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Thanks!
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Fascinating, seeing and understanding more religions is something I would like to do as well.
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Exploring other faiths really is very instructive as well as enjoyable.
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Like you, I’ve also been interested in other faiths and traditions. Have been so since a very young age. I’m a Catholic and even though I find all religions fascinating, I’ve always been especially drawn to Judaism. Its great that you get to experience another faith first hand.
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It is a journey of discovery that is so rewarding. I feel the same way about Judaism . Lori
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Beautiful! I am a Christian, and I feel there is such a beautiful connection to the Jewish heritage. For many years, we celebrated the Passover Feast at our church — it is such a beautiful and wonderful experience.
~ Anna
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I feel that connection too. Lori
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Reblogged this on Still Another Photoblog.
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Thank you for reblogging my post. Very kind.
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Our churches been arranging for us to attend services of other faiths. We’ve shared meals with our Muslim neighbors and will be going to a Jewish Synagogue soon. They, in turn, are invited to our Church (Congregational). It is a wonderful life learning experience for me, too.
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Hi, That is so wonderful to hear. In our own ways we are building bridges. Thanks for sharing!
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You have turned the “fear” of an “outsider’s religion” into embracement and acceptance. Your willingness to avoid dogmatic imposition in favor of new experiences and differing approaches creates enlightenment and a new understanding that help unite people. I hope many people read this post and consider experiencing other religions and cultures to remove the divisions that misrepresentations create.
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Thank you for your support. I have learned so much. Attending services has enriched my spiritual life and given me a better understanding of Judaism and its relationship to Christianity. Lori
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Hey! I’m at work surfing around your blog from my new iphone 4! Just wanted to say I love reading your blog and look forward to all your posts! Keep up the outstanding work!
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