A Google Prompt

The pop up on my smartphone was timely.

“Reach out to a friend”  was the reminder from Google that I programmed a few months ago. 

I work to keep in touch with my friends through notes, cards, emails, calls.

Sometimes, I call and invite someone over for an impromptu meal, glass of wine or coffee. I have given up on the idea of being the perfect hostess. I would rather be the perfect friend!  

No saints here

While reaching out to others doesn’t qualify me  for sainthood, I know that it matters to my friends when I remember them. I know that it means a lot to me when they reach out to me.    

Reaching out and making a connection can ease my sadness over my daughter-in-law’s illness.*

Reaching out can make me feel useful in a world where many things seem to be going wrong.

Reaching out reaffirms that I am not the center of the universe.  Others have lives worth celebrating and sorrows that I can help them bear.   

Why the pop up was timely.

It prompted me to write a post about  the benefits that I gain from reaching out to my friends.  .

It reminded me that the people with whom I communicate through this blog are my friends too.

So, I am reaching out to you, wishing you well and thanking you for your support, advice, and caring.  

This flower is for you.

*Note

My young daughter-in-law  was given 6-12 months to live in May 2017.  She is still alive 18 months later. Her life has changed dramatically.  She no longer works. She is in treatment for her Stage 4 cancer almost all of the time.  She has a devoted husband, family and friends who love her and support her. Best of all, she has a rip-roaring, rambunctious wonderful two-year old toddler who brightens all our days.