As I was walking out the door this morning for an 8:30 appointment, my phone rang.
It was my 3-year old granddaughter calling for a video chat.
Of course I took the call. I was prepared to be late or miss my appointment.
A minute later her sweet little face popped up on my screen.
It was an emergency
She was distressed and needed my help.
She could not find her cream colored nail polish.
Did I know where it was?
We talked about it.
Maybe the cleaning lady moved it.
Maybe it was in the pink bathroom.
She was close to tears as she told me that the cleaning lady would not come again until Thursday.
She had looked in the pink bathroom.
She couldn’t find her polish!
Daddy to the rescue
My son stepped in and promised to take her to buy polish today.
Seeing this precious child made me miss her even more.
Seeing her upset made me want to reach into the screen and hold her.
It made me miss her Mom who would have handled this crisis.
She would have located the polish.
She would have taken her to buy more.
Now, as a single parent and widower, it is my son’s job.
This is so hard.
Loss rears its head in many ways, catching us off-guard.
But we keep moving.
There’s a 3-year old who needs reassurance and love.
Sweet child, your Mommy is gone but you will be OK.
Little by little, all three of you will begin to cope with the new dynamics. Meanwhile each small step can be a heartbreaker.
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Thank you. You are right. I hope you are doing well. Happy New Year. Lori
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Just great, Lori, thanks. Hope you have a good year ahead.
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Thank you. I am doing creative things and calming things… made a slide show last night. I also am cleaning closets & drawers…where does all of that stuff come from? Take care.
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When you’re done with your closets, I know where you could come to do more if you like. 😉
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My closet project is turning into a nightmare. Where is Marie Kondo? Happy New Year!
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Heartbreaking . She will save both you and your son
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Yes, that little sweet little girl will keep us moving along. I hope you are doing well. Happy New Year!
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Happy New Year! I am sorry I have been off line for some time
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Thank you Jude. I hope that you are doing well in the New Year.
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Awh!! This pulled my heart strings soo much. I can only imagine how much it affected you. Hugs to you and your precious granddaughter and son!
Thoughts and prayers are with you all as you travel this hard journey.
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Thank you for your kind thoughts and the hugs…and, of course, the prayers. Lori
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So often it’s the small things that derail us. I hope 2020 brings better times for you and your family Lori.
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Thank you. I am taking it easy as much as I can. I hope you are doing well. Best wishes for a happy and healthy New Year. Lori
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That’s good to hear Lori. I’m doing ok — afew family crises, but I’m feeling strong again.
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I am glad you feel strong again. I am sorry about the family crises. Take care of yourself. Wishing you happiness and peace in the New Year. Lori
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Thank you Lori.
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Hugs to you all Lori. May 2020 be a little easier for you.Peace and blessings to you and those you love.
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Peter, Thank you for your good wishes. I know 2020 will be better even with the bittersweet memories. I wish you a healthy and Happy New Year. Lori
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One tiny huge blessing…she has an angel for a ‘nan’. You both have changed, both of your hearts are so much bigger ❤️
May you all have a New Year filled with that empathy and love to build on ❤️
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Thank you for your kind words. They mean a lot to me. I hope your New Year is starting out well for you and yours. Lori
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Very poignant, Lori — it is so true, it is the “small” specific moments that bring large events into focus – the lost cream nail polish vignette is the perfect example. May 2020 bring all of you more and more moments of calm and peace
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Thank you for your kind words and wishes for the New Year. I hope you are doing well and will have a happy & healthy New Year.
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Often it is in these seemingly ‘little” things that the heart strings are most tugged. Thank God you have the technology to actually see speak and interact with this little one. One day and one little step at a time into 2020. May the blessings and the grief truly walk hand in hand as you journey together even if from a DISTANCE. God’s richest Strength and Grace to you each one. x
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Thank you Faye. I appreciate your kind words of strength and comfort. Blessings to you in the New Year. XO
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Hazel thought to call you because she knows she can count on you to be there for her. You’re a wonderful Grandma, Lori. You and your son are exactly what she needs right now.
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Hi Lori.
Wish you a happy 2020!
Hugs from Italy,
Vicky
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